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downlo:

A useful rape analogy

downlo:

A useful rape analogy

Source: hausofkelsie

"Rape culture is telling girls and women to be careful about what you wear, how you wear it, how you carry yourself, where you walk, when you walk there, with whom you walk, whom you trust, what you do, where you do it, with whom you do it, what you drink, how much you drink, whether you make eye contact, if you’re alone, if you’re with a stranger, if you’re in a group, if you’re in a group of strangers, if it’s dark, if the area is unfamiliar, if you’re carrying something, how you carry it, what kind of shoes you’re wearing in case you have to run, what kind of purse you carry, what jewelry you wear, what time it is, what street it is, what environment it is, how many people you sleep with, what kind of people you sleep with, who your friends are, to whom you give your number, who’s around when the delivery guy comes, to get an apartment where you can see who’s at the door before they can see you, to check before you open the door to the delivery guy, to own a dog or a dog-sound-making machine, to get a roommate, to take self-defense, to always be alert always pay attention always watch your back always be aware of your surroundings and never let your guard down for a moment lest you be sexually assaulted and if you are and didn’t follow all the rules it’s your fault."

Source: forums.somethingawful.com

"Eight percent of college men have either attempted or successfully raped. Thirty percent say they would rape if they could get away with it. When the wording was changed to “force a woman to have sex,” the number jumped to 58%. Worse still, 83.5% argue that “some women look like they are just asking to be raped."

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Margo Paine, Ph.D. (Body Wars)

This is what it means when we say that there is such a thing as “rape culture”. It is imperative that we teach men that rape is wrong, no matter what form it takes. If you are having sex with someone without their consent (or with someone who cannot give their consent) - you are a rapist. End of the gods-damned story.

(via edman)

I just threw up in my mouth.

(via tehblackbirdisflying)

Need to have this for future reference.  I read a couple of studies like this - that once you take the word “rape” out of the question ,the number of men who admit to activities that amount to rape skyrockets.  They all do it, they’re just all pretending they don’t.

(via girlinthegarden)

this makes everything inside me hurt.

(via peprkaq-deactivated20110714)

Source: bblackenedbutterfly